Ivy left me last night to go spend the night at home so she could get up early and study for an early class. She left her wallet with her school ID here. I think she did it on purpose:D So somehow things got mysteriously better with her folks and her mom invited me to lunch on Saturday at the house. I left early to take her wallet to her and have lunch with them. We walked around and got some pictures of us before heading off to school. I waited just down from the school at KFC and watched the traffic go by while playing chuzzle.
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Friday, January 30, 2009
Manila, Philippines: Day 4
Yesterday was bad, Today was worse!! We got up and left the room around 8:30am, we just got down the stairs when I got a text message from Dena that said call Debby. If Dena couldn't tell me then I knew it had to be bad news from home. I called Debby and she said that my father had just passed away in his sleep 30 minutes previous..............Everyone didn't understand why I would make the trip when dad was sick but here is the story.
Dad has had emphysema for years and only had 23% capacity of his lungs. He was seeing doctors all fall for different things. Finally they told him he had a tumor growing and pressing on his esophagus and if he didn't have chemo he had 3 to 6 months and 2 or 3 years if he did. He decided to have the chemo. I found the good deal on a flight to Manila so I booked it. 2 days later he told me he wasn't doing the chemo, he was too tired to make the trip to town.
I figured he still had 3 to 6 months and I was only going for 2 weeks. It was a non refundable flight and I really could have canceled and forfeited the money but I still had Ivy to think about. She knew I bought the ticket and was as excited to meet me as I was her. If I had cancelled she wouldn't have believed any story I told and would have thought I was just having second thoughts about meeting her and that would have put a strain on our relationship that I didn't want on it. So I chose to follow through with the plan and go meet her. I was too much in love with her already and was sure the time was right to meet her.
My first day here I talked to mom and she said they didn't understand why I went through with the trip when I knew hospice was coming in to see him everyday and he wasn't good. I tried to explain what I wrote above but I still think they feel like I was wrong!!! Anyhow, the next day he fell getting in or out of bed and they had to call the paramedics to come get him back up and then that was when things turned and went quickly downhill from there.
Dad has had emphysema for years and only had 23% capacity of his lungs. He was seeing doctors all fall for different things. Finally they told him he had a tumor growing and pressing on his esophagus and if he didn't have chemo he had 3 to 6 months and 2 or 3 years if he did. He decided to have the chemo. I found the good deal on a flight to Manila so I booked it. 2 days later he told me he wasn't doing the chemo, he was too tired to make the trip to town.
I figured he still had 3 to 6 months and I was only going for 2 weeks. It was a non refundable flight and I really could have canceled and forfeited the money but I still had Ivy to think about. She knew I bought the ticket and was as excited to meet me as I was her. If I had cancelled she wouldn't have believed any story I told and would have thought I was just having second thoughts about meeting her and that would have put a strain on our relationship that I didn't want on it. So I chose to follow through with the plan and go meet her. I was too much in love with her already and was sure the time was right to meet her.
My first day here I talked to mom and she said they didn't understand why I went through with the trip when I knew hospice was coming in to see him everyday and he wasn't good. I tried to explain what I wrote above but I still think they feel like I was wrong!!! Anyhow, the next day he fell getting in or out of bed and they had to call the paramedics to come get him back up and then that was when things turned and went quickly downhill from there.
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On My Philippine Excursion
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Manila, Philippines: Day 3
Well today was not a good day! It was great as far as Ivy is concerned but the flop was we decided that I should meet the parents. Mother first: We met at the mall and had lunch. Maybe there should be a little background first. Ivy has kept me and our relationship a secret from everyone except a few of her close friends. So you can imagine the mothers surprise when we meet for lunch and she thinks I am a new found friend only to discover that we have been conversing for some months and that I flew half way around the world to meet Ivy and she has been staying at the hotel with me for 2 days and the parents thought she was at a school function.
So I was bombarded with questions of every sort! I was accused of being a thief, murderer, druggie, disease spreader, alcoholic and many other things. I was presumed guilty! It was implied that Ivy was a little girl and incapable of being smart enough to have already asked and verified everything that was brought up. I was very obliging at the start but quickly became aggravated as the questions became accusations. So me being the rebel that I am I clammed up and told Ivy it was time to go.
So I was bombarded with questions of every sort! I was accused of being a thief, murderer, druggie, disease spreader, alcoholic and many other things. I was presumed guilty! It was implied that Ivy was a little girl and incapable of being smart enough to have already asked and verified everything that was brought up. I was very obliging at the start but quickly became aggravated as the questions became accusations. So me being the rebel that I am I clammed up and told Ivy it was time to go.
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On My Philippine Excursion
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
Manila, Philippines: Day 2
Glad Ivy had he day off from school today. We did a little sight seeing and she showed me around some. Definitely different from anything I ever experienced before, more later.
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On My Philippine Excursion
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Manila, Philippines: Day 1
Hello from the Philippines!! I advanced a full day ahead on my trip here so even though the dates and times don't match that of home in the USA it is the day it happened to me here. My flight arrived nearly an hour earlier then scheduled. Good thing it did because I was the first to load in LA and the last to get my bags here:( Was beginning to think they got lost in transit. Customs and Immigration went quick and easy and I was out to look for Ivy. I met a man carrying a sign with my name just like in the movies:)) I told him Ivy said to turn right but he argued and told me left so we went left! Well Ivy met us at the car and gave me hell for not making him turn right and finding her. (what a way to start off???) Rode to the hotel, checked in, got a shower and was off to la la land.
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On My Philippine Excursion
Sunday, January 25, 2009
WHOOO HOOOO! THE JOURNEY BEGINS!!!
My ride has just showed up early!! so I am off to start MYPHILIPPINEJOURNEY hahahahah. no time to write. next update is going to be from the Philippines.
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Friday, January 23, 2009
The Update Of The CENTURY!!!!!!!
Ok, ok here's the scoop poop!!! A ticket to the Philippines in May will be around $1600 or $1700 dollars, one now is $955.00 round trip. So I bought a ticket now and I am leaving Sunday evening from LAX. (Los Angeles International) The itinerary is; bobtail to Fontana California. Park at a secure facility. Sunday morning take a taxi from there to the train station, @6 miles. Take the train to Union Station in downtown LA. Catch a bus from there to LAX. Wait at the airport until the flight leaves at 8:30 LA time Sunday evening. Arrive in Manila Tuesday morning (local Manila time). From there??? you have to wait for the next update to be posted from the Philippines. See you soon Ivy!!!! I can't wait to see you!!! :-*
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Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Uhhh Ohhh! Broken Trailer:(
Got the news today that my trailer will be down for a few days to have the axle replaced. Soooo, I am going to bobtail (drive with the truck only and no trailer) to California. I will give you the whole scoop next update. Check back soon.
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Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Another Load Delivered And Done.
Got my trailer back from the Mexican forwarder but the axle from my repair is still getting hot so I am taking it to the trailer repair shop. Seen a sign on the way through town. It will neam something to someone special and everyone else......... just El Paso traffic:D
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Monday, January 19, 2009
Trailer Dropped,.....Waiting.
Dropped my trailer at the forwarder and now I wait. They say it will be back late tonight or early in the morning.
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Saturday, January 17, 2009
Friday, January 16, 2009
Thursday, January 15, 2009
Wednesday, January 14, 2009
Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Looking Forward To Some Much Needed Sleep.
Well, I had to run pretty hard to make delivery today so I could be paid on Thursday. (: I am soooo tired and ready to nap. I got empty, back into the USA, and parked and ready to sleepI-
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Monday, January 12, 2009
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Wednesday, January 7, 2009
I'm Stuffed And Sleepy
Loaded this morning and decided to stop and visit Scott and Debby on my way out of Florida. Well let me tell you I sure was glad I did. Not so much happy to see them as I was that I made the offer to by dinner if they would drive. (hehe, sorry deb) They picked me up near the exit and drove me to a Chinese restaurant. (yeah I know my favorite food)
Sorry no pictures, I left the camera in the truck but DAMM I wish I could have shared with you because it was really good. Lots too choose from, seafood, sushi, even crab legs although they were very small and hard to peel, I ate enough to hold me for 3 days! Ok so it just seemed like it at the time:D
Sorry no pictures, I left the camera in the truck but DAMM I wish I could have shared with you because it was really good. Lots too choose from, seafood, sushi, even crab legs although they were very small and hard to peel, I ate enough to hold me for 3 days! Ok so it just seemed like it at the time:D
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Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Sometimes It Pays To Get Tired!
Well, I guess things happen for a reason. I got so sleepy I pulled into a rest area and slept till noon! Woke up mad at myself for it until I checked the loads before I left and found a good one from Ft Lauderdale, FL. to British Columbia. Was I glad I only got 200 miles away, Had to backtrack those 200 plus another 200 but it was well worth the deadhead!! Woo Hoo!! Finally after weeks of crap a good one pops in. 1 is where I emptied, 2 is the rest area I slept at, 3 is where I loaded.
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Monday, January 5, 2009
All Day And No Load
All day of sitting and refreshing loads turns up nothing but cheap freight! Why are Hollywood actors and sports players worth millions to entertain us but its not worth $2.00 a mile to get your food and goods delivered to you?? Things needed to survive versus things to amuse us? Hmm? What the hell do I know? Well looks hopeless sitting here too long so even though I am tired I am going to head to the home 20 and try and get a few things done around there.
Finished, Chandler, Arizona To Lakeland, Florida
There's another load delivered. This picture is a little late, should have been here at the start of the trip but just got everything up and running right.
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And Mapping My Way
Sunday, January 4, 2009
The Holidays Are Over
The holidays are now but just a memory. The final day before everyone gets back to the same old grind. Me?,...... I never left it. I spent my days sitting and waiting........ wondering if I would get another load,...... but I have to say, this has really been my best -Christmas and New Years holiday ever.
I am not good at saying what I am thinking or feeling but this is as close as I can get. My time was spent away from home, family, friends, even familiar places. But it was not spent alone. Alone in the physical sense, yes, like having someone to touch, hold, kiss. But I was with the one I love almost the entire time. Yes I had to see her on a 15 inch screen, but we ate together, talked, laughed, even slept together. She got to hear me snore in her ear and I got to fall asleep to the sound of her breathing.
My holiday was fantabulous!!! Thank you Ivy for being there for me and not letting me spend it alone. I love you hun, always. Hope next year I can feel your breath and hear it at the same time.
I am not good at saying what I am thinking or feeling but this is as close as I can get. My time was spent away from home, family, friends, even familiar places. But it was not spent alone. Alone in the physical sense, yes, like having someone to touch, hold, kiss. But I was with the one I love almost the entire time. Yes I had to see her on a 15 inch screen, but we ate together, talked, laughed, even slept together. She got to hear me snore in her ear and I got to fall asleep to the sound of her breathing.
My holiday was fantabulous!!! Thank you Ivy for being there for me and not letting me spend it alone. I love you hun, always. Hope next year I can feel your breath and hear it at the same time.
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About Immportant Things,
For My True Love
Saturday, January 3, 2009
Friday, January 2, 2009
Thursday, January 1, 2009
All Fixed And Rolling Again
I had a real good road service company come out and get me fixed up and rolling in about 7 hours from the time it happened until I was back on the road. Pretty good time for a repair like that. This is what the repair looks like.
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What A Way To Start The New Year!
This is what the wheel and tire should look like.This one also.
This is what happens after a fire.
As is this one from a little further away.
Left Tucson this evening headed for Florida. Was listening to them dropping the ball in New York City to ring in the new year when I noticed flames coming from my trailer. This is what I found.
This is what happens after a fire.
As is this one from a little further away.
Left Tucson this evening headed for Florida. Was listening to them dropping the ball in New York City to ring in the new year when I noticed flames coming from my trailer. This is what I found.
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Another Bad Day In My Journeys
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